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The View from 36,000 Feet

I penned this post while flying somewhere over New York, Pennsylvania or Ohio on my return from the 140 Characters Conference in NYC in late April. Now that some time has elapsed, I think it’s perfect timing to share the impact the event had on me in the hours immediately after.

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I am now cruising at 36,000 feet somewhere above New York watching a gleaming sun slowly fade into the evening sky. It’s beautiful; the clouds below look like towering snowy mountains – an aerial landscape that will last only for a short time.

This seems a bit like a metaphor for the 140 Characters Conference that I attended over the course of the last two days. It was beautiful, only lasted a short time and has finally come to a close. However, it is far from complete.

If there is one thing that I took away from my experience at #140conf, it is this: the relationships formed will endure long after the closing remarks have been made. At least they should.

There were so many brilliant minds concentrated in one area – people with minds for business and hearts for people. I’ll make the argument that it is the latter more than the former that makes what Jeff Pulver has created such a powerful event.

Many of the speakers and panelists talked about the importance of being authentic and transparent. We hear these words being thrown around so often that I fear they might lose they’re impact, but at the same time, through the interactions I had at the conference, it is apparent that many - if not most - of the attendees embrace these two traits.

What struck me was the diversity of people in attendance and the absolute connectedness of them all as a community. I met with people who run multiple multi-million dollar businesses, people who have spent time in prison, people who have been abused, people who love to talk, some who are so shy they’d like to hide in a corner somewhere (but didn’t!). I met people of many races and places: people from New York, Georgia, California, Illinois, Massachusetts, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Florida, Georgia, Virginia, Tennessee, Texas, and as far away as Israel! But they all came to do one thing: share themselves with each other.

Some people were there to help others, some were there to discover themselves.

The incredible part about all of it is that it was all happening in real-time, enabled by “new” technology.

I came into the #140conf with the idea that there would be a lot of “how to” type presentations, a lot of “look what I did” speeches and quite a bit of focus on emerging technology. While there was certainly some new technology being discussed, it was always about the “why” behind the technology, not about the technology itself or how beautifully architectured it was.

The takeaway: People matter. People care.

And the #140conf participants represented humanity well.

The Tipping Point

For the few weeks leading up to my trip to the 140 Character Conference in New York City (April 19-21, 2010), I had been toying with the idea of finally starting a blog. I decided to wait and to let my experience in NYC speak to my heart and soul about whether I should do it or not.

I hear experts all the time talking about having a “home base.” Most recommend a blog. It makes complete sense, but to be honest, I think it was my own insecurity that kept convincing me that I didn’t have that much to offer/say, or that people just wouldn’t care, and somehow I just didn’t want to offer myself up for “rejection.” I even prayed about it.

Plus, I wasn’t sure I’d be able to commit to staying current with my posts - it’s a big commitment - and I don’t like starting things I don’t think I can finish or doing things half way.

Nonetheless, through my prayers and my experience at #140conf, I have decided to kick off a blog. I soul searched and really looked at my life. What became crystal clear to me was that I always lead with my heart, and that, for me, was justification enough to get this started.

If I can offer myself to the world, to help change lives and make life more enjoyable for anyone I come in contact with, I owe it to people to do that. Hopefully, this blog will help do just that.

I want this blog to be a place of inspiration and honesty, a place where I can teach and (more importantly) learn, where I can share and listen, where I can build community and relationships.

If you are reading this post, it it because you have been personally invited by me through our connection on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, or (gasp) in person. Although, I hope that as time passes, you will find enough value and inspiration in what I present to share it with people you know so that we can grow together and constantly strive to make life (and business) joyful and rewarding.

Here’s to helping each other…